If thinking about dating brings up feelings of dread and means bracing yourself for another round of fake laughs and painful small talk….just STOP!
You’ve wanted a true equal partner to share the best years of your life with….
But you’ve had a hell-of-a-time finding him, right?
I want to introduce a shift in perception you might be overlooking. This dream man of yours? He’s out there. But here’s the thing:
He might also be having a difficult time finding YOU…
Know why?
It’s because you’re not showing up. You’re hiding. Making it really hard for him to SEE you.
It’s the smile you’re not sharing.
It’s the eye contact, you’re failing to hold.
It’s the fake laugh and contrived conversations you use when you’re scared to be your true self.
I call this walking around with a ‘closed for business’ sign over your head.
Even though you want to be loved for your real true self, you’re keeping her under lock and key… and he can’t see you!
WHY DO THIS? YOU’RE BLOODY WONDERFUL!!!!
So how can you turn things around?
One simple and powerful way is to be humble and courageous enough to ask for help. No matter how smart, accomplished and successful you may be in your professional life- we often just can’t see the tip of our own noses.
You can find love with the man of your dreams, and you can do it while being 100% authentic to yourself
Stop pretending, stop giving away your power, and stop sharing the version of you that you think HE wants to see, because take my word for it he wants to see YOU in all your authentic glory!!
If you want to know how to start this journey feel free to watch this totally free 45-minute webinar:
https://ownyourbestlife.uk/webinar/lead/1127
or should you just want to discuss your situation and get totally free advice from a trained Life coach book a call using the link below:
https://ownyourbestlife.uk/booking/1127
Be happy…Jayne x