If you are a professional and have everything in life but love…and are ready to find a healthy, secure and sexy partner who adores you, you are in the right place…
Are you longing to share your life with someone and stop the unconscious but destructive mistakes you’ve been making, that scare away the RIGHT prospective partners and ensure you no longer continue to attract the same WRONG ones which always end in disappointing relationships over and over?
Read on to discover the well-kept secret that is essential in turning a first date into a second and then into a long-term, healthy relationship.
Learn how to share your ‘authentic’ self without coming off too eager, desperate OR intimidating…so you can be the high-performing, successful individual in your professional life AND also capable of having a deep, loving, intimate partnership
Yes, you CAN have it all!!!
So does this relate to you?
- Do you know intellectually that you are an amazing individual and a great catch but can’t seem to find and keep a healthy relationship?
- Do you fill your time with work or keep busy reading, watching TV or shopping so you can avoid the reality that you are still single?
- Do you put up with all sorts of nonsense from men/women who won’t commit or are unavailable, when you take NO shit in other areas of your life?
- Do you feel uncertain and confused about how to navigate the dating world?
Working on these areas will ensure that the person you are going home to at the end of the day, is happy to see you and you can finally be completely ‘seen’, heard, loved and desired by someone who also turns you on
You can feel confident enough to give your love generously, while also having your needs met by someone who cherishes you
Most importantly you will realise you were ALWAYS loveable, capable and desirable
Sound like you?
So what can we do to ensure that you are living your best life in relation to love? You will need to…
- Hop in the front seat, grab the wheel and take control – be the pilot and not the passenger
- Get real about your fear and drop the defensive behaviour that keeps you from being open and having that connection
- Use your secret weapon…. A person of either sex who knows what they want and puts that out into the world unapologetically is irresistible and undeniable
SO:
No more hoping, praying, wishing, dreaming…that’s passive…
- No more blaming or being ‘stuck’ in a story that doesn’t serve you and makes you powerless…
- TAKE ACTION -Taking responsibility for ourselves is one of the most liberating experiences and is the basis of all the work I do
- Stop looking outside of yourself for the source and start looking within as WE create the reality in which we live!
- The key elements of this creation are our core beliefs, thoughts, emotions and actions. The deep subconscious beliefs you hold will be the destiny you create; should you wish to take this journey with me, we will investigate and challenge these
- When you understand what you are most afraid of in love and relationships (rejection, betrayal, hurt), you can change the behaviour that is a barrier, blocking the connections you really want
- How you show up and communicate is predicated upon your fears and beliefs – these will need to be investigated and challenged also
- When hiding behind armour and layers of protection you will never ever experience true connection, not even in your friendships ……the world is ready for the REAL you 😊
WHAT NOT TO DO
If you are powerful in your professional life but show up diminished and uncertain in relationships
THIS WILL NEVER WORK
DO NOT… acquiesce, accommodate, defer, or deflect. If you do, you will kill your chances of connection and end up either dating a doormat or ditched for being a cold fish!!
When you make these 3 changes, you can easily create the HOT, HEALTHY and HAPPY relationship you want with the EXACT kind of partner you desire and have it last a lifetime
- Being the pilot and not the passenger means you are taking 100% responsibility for yourself and your love life
- Getting real about your fear so you can drop the defensive behaviour that keeps you from being open and having that deep connection
- Remember the secret weapon is all about understanding how to show up completely authentic and empowered
Last but not least……Stop Chasing Love
This sounds scary and is sometimes one of the main things my clients struggle with, because they want it so badly and feel they are running out of time…
However, chasing after something you want, often keeps it just beyond our reach, making it elusive like chasing a wet bar of soap around the bathtub! When you get this wrong you are frantic and desperate and repel the high-quality partners. They sense your fear and anxiety and will run for the hills.
And crucially this is when you ignore the red flags, negotiate or convince yourself and start settling because you love the idea of ’them’ or the relationship rather than seeing them clearly and rationally and following your ‘gut’
Want, not need
When you get this right you can sit back, relax and work on making these simple shifts. Focus on what you really can control…..YOU!!
When you are just enjoying your life and being present, you are your most alluring and captivating to high-quality prospective partners
And when you WANT and don’t NEED, you hold PERSONAL POWER
If you could have done this on your own already, you would have and you wouldn’t be listening to me now.
You can’t positive self-talk yourself out of this one believe me…I tried and failed!!
You need more than advice or band-aid quick-fix solutions because information unfortunately doesn’t create transformation
Should you decide to take the journey above you will need to work with someone who cares enough to tell you the truth…and who will guide you step by step and help you apply what you know intellectually for a tangible change
YOUR LOVE LIFE MATTERS
You’ve probably invested in your education, training and career advancement, fitness and finance goals, and that is why you are successful with these parts of your life ‘sorted’
You spend on loved ones, children’s camps and activities and at some point probably their education!
There is NO SHAME in needing help in this part of your life whether male, female, young, old, single, divorced or widowed. The only shame would be to waste another moment feeling sad, lonely or confused as I did before engaging a Life Coach to help me
If you want to discuss any of the points above, please contact me to arrange a completely free ‘breakthrough’ call, where we can personalise some of the issues above. After this call is completed, there will be no hard selling or commitment to work with me. We can communicate via phone or Zoom, whichever you are more comfortable with.
You have everything to gain and absolutely nothing to lose……
Kind regards,
Jayne x
