NEVER RUN BACK TO WHATEVER BROKE YOU
IF YOU DON’T LET YOUR PAST DIE, YOUR PAST WON’T LET YOU LIVE
Usually, I’m not a fan of glib ‘quotes’ but these two struck me as salient to many of the clients I talk to, and were also relevant to my own situation many years ago.
I’m not saying that either of these statements are easy to live by when you are in a world of pain after a break up. However, take it from someone who has been there, and with hindsight regrets not doing so.
So give them some thought, write them down, stick them above the bathroom mirror so it’s the first thing you see in the morning, pop it above the kettle for when you waver and asking him to come back seems the easiest option.
You will save yourself a lot of pain, heartache and also precious time that you could be using to move forward and build an amazing new future….