Let’s talk for a minute about your fears and insecurities. Yes, no matter how smart, successful or accomplished you are, you have them because we all do.
Fear of rejection, abandonment, getting hurt, being disappointed again, making a mistake and messing things up again, picking another wrong guy, being alone for the rest of your life… on and on- all of these fears are real.
And these fears are much more powerful than you might realise.
They have you hiding and not letting anyone ‘in,’ pretending to be someone you aren’t, pushing away the right men, being too busy with work, making yourself small, focusing on the wrong thing to ‘fix’ instead of the real things…. sound familiar?
When you do all of these things on dates or in relationships with men, fear is at the wheel, driving your life forward and determining every move you make while you are a mere passenger in the back seat.
The real question is are you willing to do the work to overcome your fears about love that keep you single and do the work to improve your self worth and your mindset, or are you going to tolerate not getting what you actually want with your list of excuses, reasons and avoidance behaviours? Harsh you may think! However, a question both I and my clients pondered….and then picked up the phone.
The good news is we can break this cycle :). Life coaching can investigate the origin of these fears, dispel them and allow you to live your life free of fear and with sky-high self-esteem and unbreakable confidence. So you can live your best life with NO LIMITS!!
Hope to speak soon.
